Dr. Karen Bergstrom seated in her garden

Dr. Karen BergstromPsychologistExecutive coachTPRAT certification

Relational growth for leaders, teams, pastors, boards and campuses

Start with the TPRAT, the assessment of four life capacities she trains and certifies leaders in. Then grow from there, with 35 years of practice beside you.

35+ years5 state agencies39 organizations

Trusted by

Thirty-five years alongside leaders in every sector

Taco Bell, Microsoft, Oregon Department of Human Services, California Department of Social Services, Colorado Department of Human Services, Idaho Department of Health and Welfare, State of Alaska, Cru, Bethany Christian Services, Seattle Pacific University, Safe Families for Children, Catholic Community Services, Lutheran Family Services, Townsend Leadership, Concordia University Irvine, Asbury University, Mariners Church, Redeemer Presbyterian Church, Revere, Church of the City, St. Andrew’s Presbyterian Church, Olivecrest, Orange County Rescue Mission, Fort Wayne Rescue Mission, OC United, Calvary Church, Hearts with a Mission, Twin Cedars Youth and Family Services, Beacon Hill, CAFA, Kindred Partners, Uniquely Knitted, J.L. Childress, Aquarius Chemical, GrowthSkills, Radiant Sun, Harvest Counseling, Restored Pathways Counseling, Greg Richards Law and more.

35+

Years of practice

Psychologist, executive coach and professor.

5

State agencies

Human services departments across the West.

39

Organizations

Brands, nonprofits, universities and churches.

4

Life capacities

Measured by the TPRAT, the assessment she certifies leaders in.

Find your path

Which path is right for you?

TLP cohort, 2025

  • Cohort
  • 12 months
  • Starts September

Grow alongside other leaders in a year-long TLP cohort

Research-based leadership development in a small group, with one-to-one time built in. Applications open late spring through summer.

Leaders from Mariners Church, Olivecrest and Cru have grown here.

Start here

Everything begins with the TPRAT™

Four life capacities, measured in one assessment. Scroll to meet each one.

1 of 4 · Builds trust

Attachment

Being open and vulnerable with others, and drawing out their trust in you. It is how leaders build teams people want to stay on.

Connected

2 of 4 · Sets boundaries

Separation

Knowing what you are for and against, owning your voice, saying no well and confronting with care.

Differentiated

3 of 4 · Engages reality

Integration

Facing loss, failure and hard news, adapting, and grieving in healthy ways without self-judgment.

Balanced

4 of 4 · Lives with ownership

Adulthood

Relating to others as a mutual adult, and finding and following your purpose with your full talents.

Purposeful

Your next step

See where you are strong, and your growth edge

The assessment takes about 20 minutes online. Then choose how to grow: a cohort, coaching, or a workshop for your team.

Capacity map

Map your character structure

The set of capacities you need to meet the demands of reality. Drag each quadrant to where you think you are today, then see your growth edge.

Attachment0
Separation0
Live connectedLive freelyLive purposefullyLive balancedCharacterstructure
Integration0
Adulthood0

Drag or tap a quadrant to set its score.

Your capacities

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Challenge

Strength

Take the full TPRAT

A quick self reflection, not the assessment. Your answers stay in this browser.

Your growth plan for

Four steps from the TPRAT worksheet

  1. 1 · Key information

    What the result tells you

  2. 2 · Personal insight

    Look underneath

  3. 3 · Growth conversation

    Bring someone in

  4. 4 · Stretching experience

    Practice it this week

How growth works

From one assessment to lasting change

Five stages, from seed to fruit. Most leaders move through them in about a year.

Start with the TPRAT
  1. Week one

    Take the TPRAT

    About twenty minutes online. You get a clear picture of all four capacities.

  2. Weeks two to three

    Debrief your results

    One to one with Karen or a certified facilitator, so the numbers turn into insight.

  3. Month one

    Choose your path

    A cohort, executive coaching, or a workshop for your team.

  4. Months two to twelve

    Grow in relationship

    Practice with peers over months, not a weekend. Change takes root in safe relationships.

  5. One year on

    Measure again

    Retake the TPRAT and see what changed, for you and for the people you lead.

Work with Karen

Ways to grow together

Consulting and Flourish groups for women are also available on request.

    • Group coaching
    • Executives

    A leadership program for leaders invested in their own growth, in a small group of peers.

    Inquire about coaching

    Trusted by Taco Bell and Restoration Healthcare

    • Certification
    • Coaches, HR, counselors

    Learn to guide people through the TPRAT and the growth work that follows.

    Apply for certification

    Facilitators from Bethany Christian Services and Cru

    • Teams
    • Organizations
    • Churches

    Experiential workshops and talks for leadership teams, organizations and congregations.

    Plan a workshop

    Hosted by Mariners Church and Asbury University

Growth stories

Leaders, in their own words

We become more fully human in the presence of people who know how to see us, draw us out, and give us what we need to grow.
Dr. Karen Bergstrom
People do not grow in isolation. They grow through safe relationships, truth, repair, boundaries, and the steady development of character.

Psychologist · Director of Leadership, Townsend Leadership Group

Listen

On the podcasts

Conversations on relationships, leadership and the four capacities, on Spotify and YouTube.

Three conversations so far. More appearances are being added.

  • TPRAT: The power of relationships

    Townsend Institute Podcast · Episode 58

  • Improving our relationships

    We’re Going There with Bianca Olthoff

  • The fruit of growth

    Becoming Evergreen Podcast · Episode 10

Resources

Tools for the work of growing

Worksheets, conversations and listening for leaders between sessions. Open the folder, drag things around.

Capacity worksheetPDF
Live connectedLive freelyLive purposefullyLive balancedCharacterstructure
Open the interactive version →
ListeningEpisode
TPRAT: The power of relationships

Townsend Institute Podcast · Ep. 58

Listen on Spotify →
Leader storyVideo
Leader story video poster
Personal growth planPDF

Four steps: key information, personal insight, a growth conversation and a stretching experience.

Growth happens in relationship. Start with one honest conversation.

Karen

Flourish where you are

Tap the folder to open it. Press Escape to close.

Research · 15 pages · Draft for review

The TPRAT white paper

How the four capacities were tested with 1,145 participants, and how 64 questions became 20.

Download PDF
Worksheet · 3 pagesLive connectedLive freelyLive purposefullyLive balancedCharacterstructure

Character capacity worksheet

Map your four TPRAT capacities, then write a personal action plan.

Download PDF
Interactive · Reference card

The 22 relational nutrients

Choose what you need today, or download the reference card.

PDF
Worksheet · 5 pages

Relational nutrients worksheet

Find which nutrients need maintenance, strengthening or healing.

Download PDF
Team guide · 3 pages

Indicators of a relationally healthy team

The four C’s, healthy individuals, and TPRAT on teams.

Download PDF

Speaking and media

Bring Karen to your stage

Keynotes, retreats and leadership days for organizations, universities and churches. Most talks pair with a follow-up workshop, so what people see on the day turns into growth.

I don’t want to just see something in people while speaking places and say ‘bye,’ but want to help them see it and also how to grow.
Dr. Karen Bergstrom
  • The four life capacities
  • Boundaries for leaders and pastors
  • Relational health in organizations
  • Growing through failure and loss
Plan a talk and workshopMedia kit coming soon
Dr. Bergstrom laughing with two colleagues in her garden

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Ready to grow?

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What would you like to talk about?

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